What are you doing in this time of social distancing? Well for me I am currently still working so I am put in that type of environment. And while I am there I wear a mask and wash my hands constantly. Out side of work I stay home no social gatherings for me because I care about the people in my life. I am around a lot of people each day at work. But when I am home I watch a lot of movies, cook, naps and do research on a lot of different things. What is frustrating me though is that their is a lot of people who is not taking this serious at all. We have to protect ourselves and others, people lives are at stake and some people don’t know that they have it because they don’t have symptoms. So please social distance yourself I know that it sucks but the more we keep ourselves from people the faster thing can stop taking over peoples bodies!
Things that I am doing through this crazy pandemic crisis is first praying to God to keep my family safe. I wear a mask to run errands, take a shower soon as I get home from work, wash my hands constantly, wipe down the house with cleaning supplies, spray Lysol on door knobs, beds, couch, pretty much everywhere. Things that I already been doing but being more aware and cautious. I wear a mask at work cause I work at a big co-operation. I am being more cautious cause I have little ones to protect the best way that I can. And with a lot of prayers. I have a really bad immune system so yes I will be extra! But not with the overly buying, I think that is just too much and being selfish not leaving other human beings with things. I’ve been drinking a lot of teas, honey, lemon, water and eating soups, taking vitamins and medicine. And if your sick stay home! Lets all stay strong and survive. God bless the doctors, nurses and health care workers.
So I just turned 30 this year!
1. My feelings matter!!!!
2. Don’t waste your time on guys that show you that your nothing.
4. Huge savings
5. Put yourself first
6. Vent to God not friends
7. Take more time to yourself
8. Don’t rush into things, God always has a timing.
9. Invest in yourself
10. Be happy no matter what! God has a plan
Love is a virtue
What is self love to you? For me with all the things going on in life its sometimes hard to remember to take care of yourself or put yourself first. You have to remember that you are important, you are worthy and your body is your temple. Life struggles try to break you from that, its okay to be down sometimes but don’t let it last. Pick yourself right back up and keep on moving. If God gave you another day, that means you have another day to be great.
Now for me my self love involves pep talks with myself, motivational music to help start my days, praying to God that I continue to love myself, not allowing anyone to make me upset, turning the other cheek, eat healthy, exercise when I have the chance, do things that I love, getting my nails done, keeping up with getting my hair done, enjoying different foods, taking detox baths and feeding my mind with the love of God.
Everybody has their own ways of self love. Just make sure you know your worth and what a beautiful person you are. I know its hard sometimes but you got this! If you have kids remember that your kids are not okay unless you are. Put yourself first!
Relationships are hard enough but what makes a relationship last long? Me personally I’ve had a couple failed relationships but the one I am in now I know is going to last a long time. Why? What makes this relationship different? Well we were friends first, our relationship was built on friendship. Enjoying each other company, doing each other hobbies, talking about everything in the sun, I mean sometimes in the middle of my sentence I would call him girl cause I’am so into our conversation. He makes me laugh and we have a understanding that we are completely different people coming into a relationship and one day becoming one but still our own person. Putting God first, friendship, communication, trust and sex are so important in relationships. Really working together to keep the relationship going but one thing for sure you have to be happy with yourself/make your self happy before anyone can come and make you more happy. Always love yourself first and become your lovers bestfriend first!
Getting cheated on is the worse feeling ever. When you have put your all into a relationship. You think your happy and even if you weren’t happy all the time you think that you guys can work through anything. But then you find out he or she broke your trust. They allowed their selves to get close to another woman or man telling all their secrets, telling them that they will leave you or that you don’t matter. That breaks you down, your heart feels like it shriveled up in pieces. I was in a relationship for 6 years and I allowed this person to lie to me, make me look stupid, cheat on me multiple of times and allowed him to make me feel it was my fault. One day I decided to leave after catching him in our home with another woman. So I made a promise to myself that no matter how long am in a relationship if the person I’m with cheats or even lie the biggest lie that will hurt my core I’m done. Yes people will talk about how you moved on so fast. I do suggest if you know yourself date as much as you want and if your still trying to find yourself take some time or years to yourself. I knew who I was a long time ago, maybe because of things I went through in life at a young age. So I always knew what I wanted in a man/relationship and I knew what I could offer. My advice don’t give someone a second chance if they have cheated they obviously don’t cherish you or know your worth. Yes you will be hurt but there is for sure better choices out here in the world. Don’t give up on love and love yourself FIRST!
All Pregnancies are different no matter the age or how healthy you are. Some pregnancies can be smooth and some can be hell lol. Most of you know, if you read the bio I have three children, all girls. And all three pregnancies, delivery/labor was different. My first child I had her in 2010 she was my easiest one, I had no sickness, just a sweet tooth and always wanted tacos. She was not planned, very much a surprise cause I was on birth control. Fast forward to labor, soon as midnight hit on my due date my contractions started. Went to the hospital, the doctor broke my water, got a epidural and by 4:00pm I started pushing but they had to vacuum her out because her heart rate started dropping. Then there was a beautiful baby girl born. Second pregnancy was hell! Before that I found out I had Endometriosis so I wasn’t really focused on getting pregnant and didn’t think there was a chance I could again well 50/50 chance. I had morning sickness, every smell I wanted to throw up, I was mean and angry. I ended up getting preeclampsia , gained 30 pounds in one week, high blood pressure, feeling completely sick, on the verge of having seizures. They admitted me into the hospital, put me on bed rest in the hospital, they wanted to keep me there for two months but four weeks later my placenta erupted and here comes my second baby girl. I had to do a emergency C-section. She was born two months early but God had her cause she didn’t need much they just had to watch her make sure she was growing right. Now my third baby who was planned for personal reasons. This pregnancy was easy just that I was older and my bones was giving out on me lol. My delivery was planned but during labor my contractions was to much for my baby girl her heart would stop every time I had a contraction. So they said do you want to risk it and do vaginal or go with a C-section. And of course I went with C-section! Now here is my third baby girl!
All pregnancies are different, some women have a hard time conceiving, or you feel like your time clock is ticking. Honestly to me the only thing you can do is pray ask God for direction, grace and for everything to go smoothly. But when you ask for these things you have to believe and have faith. Open up your heart to what he is saying. Bless you on your journey! Cause mine were worth every minute of it, I got my three that complete me. Don’t forget adoption is great too.
Welcome to my world!
Love is a virtue…
Love, Relationships, Healing and Food
thanks for coming to my blog page! I will be talking about love, different relationships, spiritual healing and tasting local restaurants; critiquing. Mostly everything I will be talking about is from my own experiences. And in my 30 years of life I’ve experienced a lot trust me but there are new beginnings so follow along! After a year my dream is to travel the world trying different foods and writing autobiography. Come follow my journey!